So forget about your complexes and be proud of your tool whatever its size or shape!
You will gain confidence and be better able to please your partner. And for tips on how to make your potential partner a little more eager to meet you, take a look at this guide to snapping the perfect dick pic. It can come in handy!
Huge mistake. Tops can suck dick, too!
Foreplay is also a great way to turn on your partner before descending gradually to his favorite area. A great top is a chameleon.
If you always stay in your comfort zone — well, what a snooze. Alternate your pace — sometimes slow, sometimes fast — and add some fiery kisses to that thrust, dammit! Once you have fully received the penis, the last hurdle is to add new positions into the mix, like doggy-style.
Make sure you have mastered receiving to minimize any injury and maximize pleasure. Start with you receiving on top and gaining control of your muscles before moving around to new positons. Injury happens to the best of us: Proper techniques are obviously a must, but even brand-new cars can break down.
The most common issues related to anal sex trauma are tears, also known as anal fissures. Most anal fissures will heal themselves with proper care, but fissures that become chronic will require surgical intervention.
Be honest with your body: Small, petite frames and pelvises just may not be able to accept those of the more well-endowed variety. Be realistic with your goals, and realize that you may need work up to this over several months.
Use it or lose it: The key to continued ease of bottoming is to be consistent in using the above dilation methods, even throughout sexual dry spells. Keep at it so the next experience is a pleasurable one.
Engage a specialist: The process to becoming a pro at bottoming can be daunting, but it is totally achievable if you follow the above process. If all else fails, see a specialist in gay sexual health and wellness, who can provide both medical — such as personalized dilation and Botox — and surgical options including anal restoration to help improve results and assist in relaxation of the muscles. Evan Goldstein, founder of Bespoke Surgical which has offices in New York and Beverly Hills , has extensive experience educating gay and bi men on health care issues specific to the community, including: All Rights Reserved.
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